| When it comes to safe sex, both men and women are responsible for
ensuring that they use the right kind of contraception correctly.
Condoms are one of the most common and easy to use forms of
contraception to protect against unplanned pregnancies and certain
sexually transmitted diseases.
It is also one of the most affordable and accessible methods as you
do not have to go clinic or get a prescription. However, certain myths
and misconceptions about condoms prevail, causing some people to avoid
using them or use them incorrectly.
For birth control
The condom is really nothing more than a very thin piece of latex or
polyurethane that fits over the penis. It blocks semen from entering
the vagina, as well as the exchange of bodily fluids that may carry
infection.
Condoms – if used consistently and always correctly have a 98%
efficacy in preventing pregnancies. However, the problems lies in the
way people use condoms. If condoms are not correctly or not with every
sexual intercourse, then ‘accidents’ are bound to occur. One way to
increase the efficacy of condoms is to use contraceptive foams, creams,
jellies, films, or suppositories that kill the sperm if condom breaks.
Some condoms are even coated with a spermicide to provide this extra
protection.
For protection agains STDs
Latex condoms protect against sexually transmitted diseases by bodily
fluids that may contain infections. They are known to protect against
HIv, chlamydia, syphilis, chancroid and vaginitis caused by
trichomoniasis. Condoms also offer some protection – although not
completely – against other sexually transmitted infections, like HPV,
hepatitis B virus and herpes simplex virus (causing genital herpes).
Using condoms correctly
Firstly, heed this reminder: a man should always use a condom every
time he has any form of sexual intercourse be it vagina, oral or anal.
This is unless both partners have confirmed that they are free of any
STDs, are monogamous and in a long term relationship together, and have
agreed that unplanned pregnancies will not be a problem.
The condom should be put on before any genital
contact, because pre-ejaculation can also cause pregnancy. When
unwrapping the condom, be careful not to tear it. Pinch the air out of
the tip with one hand. Then, unroll the condom over the penis and roll
it all the way down to the base. Smooth out any air bubbles.
If necessary, apply a water-based lubricant, such
as KY jelly, on the condom. Do not use oil-based lubricants because
they can destroy the latex. One should withdraw immediately after
ejaculation. To avoid semen from spilling, hold the condom against the
base of the penis while pulling out. Then remove the condom, tie a knot
at the top, wrap it in some tissue paper and throw it away in the bin.
If a condom breaks during sex, quickly pull out and
replace it. Wash any semen that has leaked out with soap and water. If
semen has leaked into the vagina, you must consider the strong
possibility that pregnancy may occur. Here are some further tips on
handling condoms:
- Handle condoms gently and store them in cool, dry place so they don’t break.
- Do not keep condoms for too long in your back pocket, wallet, or car.
- Do not use condom that is too small or too large for you.
- Do not flush condoms down the toilet.
- Do not use condoms that have passed the expiry date.
- Do not reuse condoms!
Some common ‘complaints’ about condoms
- I’m allergic to latex. While it is true that
some people are allergic to latex, this should not be an excuse to
ignore birth control completely. Try using another type of condom, one
that is made from polyurethane (a type of plastic).
- Condoms dull the sensation during sex. Adding a drop of lubricant inside the tip of condom can help to enhance sensation
- Condoms interfere with spontaneity. Yes, it
may be a little awkward to stop the ‘action’ midway and bring up the
subject of birth control. Talk to your partner beforehand about
practising safe sex – condoms should become a routine part of your
sexual relationship, such that you do not notice any break go your
rhythm.
- Condoms always break. This is untrue. Condoms only break 2% of the
time, and even then, it is due to human error. When used carefully and
correctly, condoms should not fail.
- It’s too troublesome/We always forget. What’s more troublesome than
a painful and potentially life-threatening STD? Or an unplanned
pregnancy? The best thing about condoms is that they are cheap and
easily available. Use them with some other contraceptive method to
ensure better birth control. Of course, the surest way to avoid
transmission of STDs is to abstain from sex, or to stay in a long-term,
mutually monogamous relationship with a partner who is free from STDs.
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